They watched us take our first...
Dear Siblings,
I never knew I would have witnessed our father's last breath. That was my first experience of watching anyone pass.
Dad and Mom saw us take our first breath, heard us say our first word, watched us take our first step. They changed our diapers, and our clothes. They gave us baths and watched us grow. They kissed our boo-boos and mended our wounds. I never knew I would be doing the same for our mother.
I am happy that Mom is comfortable with me helping her while she is in a most vulnerable way. I am happy she trusts me. I know how awkward it was at first, for both of us. I gave my children baths and my grandchildren, but I never knew I would be helping our mom in this way and she may have never knew it either.
Although it is sad to see Mom like this, I am happy that I am able to help her in this way. I have accepted that this is Mom now, that things have changed. I do not grab my phone to call her anymore. That habit is gone, although the thought crosses my mind from time to time.
Some things I will always miss. At least she is still here to receive my hug and kiss. I know that will someday cease, and when that time comes, although I'll do my best, I know I'll miss her kiss. Each moment I have with her, I will cherish.
Dear Siblings, have a happy life and a great day. Count the blessings that come your way.
Love,
Connie
I never knew I would have witnessed our father's last breath. That was my first experience of watching anyone pass.
Dad and Mom saw us take our first breath, heard us say our first word, watched us take our first step. They changed our diapers, and our clothes. They gave us baths and watched us grow. They kissed our boo-boos and mended our wounds. I never knew I would be doing the same for our mother.
I am happy that Mom is comfortable with me helping her while she is in a most vulnerable way. I am happy she trusts me. I know how awkward it was at first, for both of us. I gave my children baths and my grandchildren, but I never knew I would be helping our mom in this way and she may have never knew it either.
Although it is sad to see Mom like this, I am happy that I am able to help her in this way. I have accepted that this is Mom now, that things have changed. I do not grab my phone to call her anymore. That habit is gone, although the thought crosses my mind from time to time.
Some things I will always miss. At least she is still here to receive my hug and kiss. I know that will someday cease, and when that time comes, although I'll do my best, I know I'll miss her kiss. Each moment I have with her, I will cherish.
Dear Siblings, have a happy life and a great day. Count the blessings that come your way.
Love,
Connie
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